

It's natural that a person wants to be loved for himself and it may be difficult to accept love when it's given in charity. Romantic love won't take over in that case, but charity-the highest of all loves-will. It is also true, however, that everyone has some undesirable traits. In the case of all other types of love, there is some attraction-some reason the person cares for another. In that case, people love without any personal attraction. Charity, according to Lewis, is the highest form of love. He goes into depth on each subject, but his true message seems to be that the four are almost always intertwined and that they are at their most intense and satisfying level when they are connected to a love for God. Lewis talks about loves in terms of affection, friendship, Eros, and charity. In the book "The Four Loves," Lewis will take the reader on a quest to discover and explore the various types of love felt, given, and received by humans. However, most people still use the word love in that context. Lewis, the author of The Four Loves, says some people are glad the English language uses both the words "love" and "like." He says his own generation was told not to say "I love strawberries," but to use the work "like" in that instance.
